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Bezig met laden... The Argonauts (origineel 2015; editie 2015)door Maggie Nelson (Auteur)
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Meld je aan bij LibraryThing om erachter te komen of je dit boek goed zult vinden. Op dit moment geen Discussie gesprekken over dit boek. There are things I don't love about this (it's very white-cis-lady about racism and some trans stuff---trying hard but not all the way there and not always conscious of the ways in which she's not all the way there), but it's also a very theory-heavy book that also manages to be very poetic and very readable, which is not an easy feat. And overall I did like it and did find many valuable things in it, so. ( ) Christmas present from Saul. Very good and strangely relatable. I have nothing in common except so much in common. So many of the same thoughts, influences, and experiences. The exterior details differ, but on the inside I know her well, she’s practically me. A very thoughtful and tender book. The sort of book I might have written but would have worried about being too contrived. Is it contrived? A little, but it’s still good. My but don’t we all have so much to expound upon. In the vein of Sontag and Barthes. Little bits pulled together around a family: its expansions and diminutions, but ultimate steady poignant march. I spent a few hours thinking about what I wanted to say about this book. I found it be a very moving memoir told from a perspective I didn't know much about. I truly admire this family for their bravery to make their story known and I would love to see people in the current social climate embracing stories like this. My only criticism is the philosophical writing style. Personally I enjoyed it but I can imagine a lot of readers being turned off by it so I wonder if it's really the right fit for such important subject matter. like a third through but it's like. very alien to my experience even when talking about seemingly similar stuff. like it mentions anti assimilation lgbtq ppl giving out leaflets and quotes it then complains revolutionary language is a fetish or something and that maybe instead of the word radical we should be saying openness and it's like wow this has exactly 0 to do with the issue of capitalism and related oppressive systems that the anti assimilation leaflet you quoted was talking about, how can you miss the point so badly I don't get it I got 2/3rds through and I don't know if I'll ever finish this because I just have zero interest in it. There were lots and lots of things that bothered me: - Real insensitivity to her partner's trans-ness, some given as examples that are presumably indicating that she's moved past it but still very uncomfortable, others in her current perspective (she uses the word "cisgendered" ffs) even while berating others as if she has a claim on her partner's experiences. A lot of what she writes about her partner is incredibly personal and it feels voyeuristic in a way past just reading her own experiences. The example that really got to me was early on when after a very personal description of her partner's feelings with binding etc she says I just want you to feel free, I said in anger disguised as compassion, compassion disguised as anger. Unlike a later recounting of a time when she objected to them going on T this is given with no sign of regret or learning. It just feels so incredibly cruel. I couldn't stop thinking about how her partner would feel about this, where there's no thought given to his feelings. It felt horrible to read. -I couldn't relate to her places or experiences at all. I just mean stuff like her carousel of speaking engagements, art/movie/whatever attendances, having all these art friends, going to cabins and stuff with her partner or whatever. This is entirely on me it just felt so alien to me I can't imagine people living like that. I don't know - So many vaguely connected philosophy quotes/interludes. Some were ok but again this is really on me when I say I found most of the philosophy stuff unbearably garbage. Given she's quoting that's not on her just a reflection of how I don't understand a lot of philosophical/cultural analysis/queer theory stuff. The queer theory stuff was worst to me because it felt personal that I didn't like it. I dunno. And sometimes it's cruel and completely unemphatic to young queer people eg sharing the story of a professor getting mad because young people wanted to ask people "how they identify" in a class when the professor is all about deconstructing identity - this after one of the better parts of the book where she takes the white male attack on "identitarian politics" or whatever to task for being bullshit. To be fair to her she does often make note of contradictory feelings on the stuff she shares but it still felt frustrating? I don't know. Again this is mostly on me There was one story also that stood out to me, of being in a seminar with serious academics and one of them giving a talk on their project which was about motherhood etc and then the next speaker absolutely tearing that academic apart and saying motherhood was stupid and all the rest. And it was horrible but she doesn't mention if she speaks out - I totally understand why not but it felt like a double humiliation for the first professor to have it written down again. This is me being unfair because the rest of the book predisposed me to bad faith but idk. The parts I was getting to about her motherhood and personal experiences with that was better but it wasn't enough to keep me interested. I don't know again this is all on me geen besprekingen | voeg een bespreking toe
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In deze genderbending memoires komt cultuurcritica Maggie Nelson met frisse, krachtige en hoognodige overpeinzingen over seksualiteit, verlangen en ́familie ́, en de beperkingen en mogelijkheden van zowel de liefde als de taal. In De Argonauten staat een liefdesgeschiedenis centraal: de relatie van de auteur met de kunstenaar Harry Dodge. Nelson laat ons van binnenuit zien hoe het is om verliefd te worden op Dodge, die genderflu© de is. Ze neemt ons mee op de lange weg van een zwangerschap, en ze toont ons de ingewikkelde en de mooie kanten van een gezin dat afwijkt van de norm.Nelson pleit voor radicale individuele vrijheid en de waarde van de zorg voor een gezin ́ je zou het de strijdkreet kunnen noemen van dit oorspronkelijke, wijze boek dat geen onderwerp schuwt en geen concessies doet. Geen bibliotheekbeschrijvingen gevonden. |
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Google Books — Bezig met laden... GenresDewey Decimale Classificatie (DDC)306.8508664Social sciences Social Sciences; Sociology and anthropology Culture and Institutions Marriage and Parenting Family Families of LGBT peopleLC-classificatieWaarderingGemiddelde:
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