Rachel Bertsche
Auteur van MWF Seeking BFF: My Yearlong Search for a New Best Friend
Over de Auteur
Rachel Bertsche is the bestselling author of MWF Seeking BFF and Jennifer, Gwyneth Me. Her work has appeared in the New York Times, Parents, Marie Claire, New York magazine, and more. A former editor at O: The Oprah Magazine, she lives in Chicago with her family.
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Statistieken
- Werken
- 4
- Leden
- 473
- Populariteit
- #52,094
- Waardering
- 3.4
- Besprekingen
- 38
- ISBNs
- 12
The first half of this book was great - Bertsche's writing was simultaneously clever, funny, thought-provoking, and - most importantly - relatable. I identified with her insecurities, and found myself contemplating the various friendships in my life, and seeing why certain friends will never be my best friends (and that's okay). It was interesting.
There were various "research" bits thrown in, and she tried to tie them into her search, with mixed results. Often, it made the reading choppy, as her writing voice changed (from very personal/candid, to factual/boring). One fact I did find interesting was when she mentioned that Robin Dunbar, a British anthropologist, claims that humans can keep up a social network of roughly 150 people - which includes general acquaintances, good and best friends, and family. (p. 6)
The second half I was not so pleased with. In the beginning, Bertsche focused on her own lackings and mishaps in trying to make new friends, but at some point in her year-long "mission," she decides she's getting much better at the whole friending thing, and she becomes kind of a snob. In the beginning, she mentions incidents where people perceive her as "desperate" and "lonely," even though she's really not, and how it was so frustrating... then, another girl she meets later on shows a bit of desperation herself, and instead of understanding (she's been there!), Bertsche kind of rips her to shreds. Really?
In the first half, I found myself thinking I would love to know her in person. In the second half, I found myself thinking she's one of those girls... who obviously thinks she's better than everyone else... and that in real life, I would avoid her like the plague. The second half was also much more boring, as the various "dates" she went on started sounding more and more alike.… (meer)