Alia Malek

Part of why Americans struggle to understand Middle Eastern history and politics is that we always begin by identifying and puzzling over the differences; in doing so, the differences become emphasized, and the puzzle becomes greater. The problem is compounded by the way we teach and study the Middle East as a unit, emphasizing broad regional and religious elements rather than coming to understand the distinct personalities and textures of individual areas. We even eat "Middle Eastern" food instead of Syrian, Yemeni, or Iranian cuisine.

Alia Malek's book is an easily accessible corrective to all that, for in her hands the vast tract of Syrian history, from ancient times though the conflicts of the last century to the morass of today, is transformed into a personal history. We are granted the privilege of viewing through her eyes a grand drama that, really, comes down to a home: a family home, one from which the family has been evicted, which she is taking up, repossessing, and filling with new life. This is history brought into the present and viewed close up. Alia challenges herself to look hard at individual characters, even close family members, and explore all of their humanness, from their worst flaws to their greatest generosity, and puts them in the context of their time and place. It is not an easy history, but it is a rich, entertaining, sad, funny, lively, and, yes, heartbreaking history. It is also a history of a woman who can speak to we sheltered Americans as an American and really bring it close to us.

Empathy is everything as we look at Syria today, absolutely everything. And this book breaks through the constant attempts to understand the history of Syria as a different place in a different region to help us instead realize we are all "balcony friends". I would heartily recommend this book to any reader, but would particularly recommend it for classes seeking to provide a human introduction to a land often put at a distance.… (meer)