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Bezig met laden... The unknown bridesmaid (origineel 2013; editie 2014)door Margaret Forster
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Meld je aan bij LibraryThing om erachter te komen of je dit boek goed zult vinden. Op dit moment geen Discussie gesprekken over dit boek. I read this book a week ago, whilst on holiday and now find I'm having difficulty remembering it. Not a good sign. Julia, the child of a somewhat puritanical and disapproving mother, didn't tell when she accidentally tipped over her niece's pram when out walking with her... and then the child dies. Keeping her secret colours Julia's life, and the person she grows into isn't easy to like. An uncomfortable read in which the pages turn quickly and easily. The only thing I didn't believe in, under the circumstances, was Julia's choice of profession. Read the book and see if you agree. ( ) This is a thoroughly absorbing and moving story of a life that is shaped and dominated by childhood events that leave Julia plagued by her earlier actions and secrets. Switching between her childhood and her later life into her late 40s, the book reveals how Julia is influenced by the events of her youth and how they affect both her personal and professional life. There is a contrast between these two parts, in that Julia has great difficulty in making and keeping close relationships in her personal life. However, her childhood actions and regrets are put to a humane and understanding approach to people in her choice of career as a child psychologist and later as a magistrate. Margaret Forster explores in a thoughtful and fully believable manner these contradictions and weaves a fascinating and sensitive novel from them. A very clever book and not just clever - the emotions are fully engaged via the intellect. Offers so much food for thought yet so smoothly written that it's a real page turner and hard to put down. In some ways it is the earlier generations that are the protagonists, the grandparents that are dead before the book starts and about which we hardly hear, and the two sisters whose internal life is never explored directly, but who each have a daughter. A lot of other reviewers have drawn morals from the tale but I don't think the author is moralising, just that there is room for each reader to make their own. For me it's just keep talking, love your family and friends and hope for some good luck at times. A story told from Julia’s perspective, back and forth between the present and past, when she and her mother went to live with relatives and she was drawn into that family. In the present day she’s an insightful therapist who works with troubled youth for the court system. In the past, she’s very different. Forster is very skilled at depicting the subtleties of family relationships and the misunderstandings and communications. But mysteries remain: How did this messed up young person become the skilled therapist? What makes her draw back from friends and family? Very readable and compelling, like all her books. The Unknown Bridesmaid is an entirely absorbing and compelling tale of a troubled girl, and the troubled adult she became. Julia believes that she is responsible for the death of her cousin's baby and turns this guilt into mischief towards that cousin and her family that takes until midlife to expiate and understand. Julia grows up to be a successful counselor of troubled children and her work eventually forces her to deal with her own demons. Julia is not unsympathetic in my opinion, and while her behavior is not "justified" Margaret Forster lets us see the forces pushing and pulling this little girl this way and that. Her relationship with her mother, her cousin and her cousin's children are stark and scary in their rawness. It's one of the best books I've read about the dark side of growing up.
Margaret Forster is a brilliant and prolific writer..She is an unassuming prose stylist. Her sentences are crafted with an artisanal eye – brief descriptions that never intrude; quietly powerful turns of phrase. Her plots take place in ordinary houses, on ordinary streets, within ordinary families..The book it most reminded me of, curiously enough, was Julian Barnes's The Sense of an Ending. There is the same sense of a psychological detective story, of piecing together the fragments of an unresolved past. The passages where Julia deals with her young clients – alternately rebellious, sullen or confused – are particularly intriguing. As an adult, Julia possesses great insight into their behaviour and yet seems to have cultivated a wilful blindness to her own past transgressions. Just like Barnes's protagonist, Julia has retold her own story in order to create a self she can live with. But unlike The Sense of an Ending, The Unknown Bridesmaid has a sustained momentum and a more satisfying resolution, while leaving enough unanswered questions to keep the mind ticking over long after the final page has been turned. Barnes, of course, won the Booker for his novel. I hope that Margaret Forster gets the recognition she deserves for this one.
When Julia was eight, she was asked to be a bridesmaid at her beautiful cousin Iris's wedding. Her mother saw this as a chore--expensive, inconvenient-- but Julia was thrilled. When the time came, even the fact that her bridesmaid's dress didn't fit, and was plain cream rather than the pink she'd hoped for, couldn't ruin the day. But after this, things began to go wrong for Julia, starting with an episode involving her cousin's baby, a pram and a secret trip round the block. A lifetime later, Julia is a child psychologist working with young girls at risk. In her sessions, Julia has a knack for determining which of her young patients are truly troubled, and which are simply at the mercy of the oppressive adults around them. Geen bibliotheekbeschrijvingen gevonden. |
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