Very interesting and well written. Delving into the plight of women's lives until so recently. Also brings home the poverty that was lifted for many in this country after the second world war and the NHS and welfare state and council housing arrived. The fear of slipping back towards that is terrible.

My own grandmother was born in 1900 but had a much easier life than Margaret Forster's mother and grandmother. But she still used to say that the great inventions of the 20th century were the washing machine and gas cooker. ( )

Very interesting and well written. Delving into the plight of women's lives until so recently. Also brings home the poverty that was lifted for many in this country after the second world war and the NHS and welfare state and council housing arrived. The fear of slipping back towards that is terrible.

My own grandmother was born in 1900 but had a much easier life than Margaret Forster's mother and grandmother. But she still used to say that the great inventions of the 20th century were the washing machine and gas cooker. ( )

My rating: 4.5

I can't fully express how great this memoir is. This book tells the story of the 3 generation of women and it was beautifully written. The hardships and gender inequality of women during the late 1800 to early 1900 was narrated and compared to the lives of the women on the author's era. Just like Margaret, I was also dismayed that she wasn't able to obtain any info about Alice because of the mental health hospital's confidentiality of her records. We could just speculate who is Alice and if it's really true that she has any connection with her Grandmother.
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I have had this book for a few years now, but had put off reading it because I was worried it might be a rather staid biography. However, this was not the case at all, and I found it an absolutely compelling read from start to finish.

It's basically a memoir of the author Margaret Forster's grandmother and mother, with a bit of her own life thrown in too. The history of these lives alone would have interested me, but she also considers the difference in the lives of women from her grandmother's and mother's eras, when they were tied to the home and had to give up their jobs if they got married and had children. Margaret was determined she wouldn't end up like that and of course, in the 1950s and 60s she had the ability to ensure that she didn't.

Being a novelist, the author managed to really bring the people in this book to life, and I think it was this above all else that really made the book such a great read for me. I felt such interest in what was happening in their lives, and became fully engrossed in them. I now plan to go on to read Precious Lives which is the memoir of her father.

Hidden Lives is superb. If you are interested at all in social history, family secrets and interesting lives then this is a great book to read. I really can't recommend it highly enough. ( )

When I grabbed this book from BookMooch I didn't realise it was non fiction. I was expecting one of Forster's novels which seem to revolve around the themes of mothers and daughters and dying. This memoir gives you an idea how Forster ended up concentrating on those themes as it looks into the lives of her mother and her grandmother before her. The book is always heading towards the inevitable conclusion that women's lives have got better over the last century so the "plot" isn't spoilt by the fact that you know the third generation is going to get away from the Carlisle council estate and become a famous writer. This book had me totally hooked and I barely put it down from start to finish. What I found very well done is how convincingly the story has been told going forwards chronologically. When you look into family history you always know the end of the story before the beginning. Forster has managed to tell the early parts of her mother and grandmother's lives without bringing in all the baggage form the ends of their lives.