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Het verhaal van een huwelijk (2015)

door Geir Gulliksen

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A dramatic portrait of the dissolution of a marriage, written with brutal and lyrical precision, and nominated for the Nordic Prize. Jon, who is losing his wife to another man, is trying to understand what happened to his Great Love, by working, painfully, to see the story from her perspective. It begins as he asks her: "Can you tell me about us?" As he looks to his past and within himself, he begins to question the conventions of masculinity and femininity, understanding himself uncommonly as a man who challenges the male role--he's deeply embedded in family life, and identifies as sensitive, vulnerable, and nurturing. And finally, in an effort to understand how his wife could fall in love with someone else, he attempts an ultimate act of empathy: to tell the story from the other man's point of view, raising crippling questions: Is it possible to have sex without violating oneself or the other? How much of what we think is love is only projection? Is it possible to truly know another person? With prose unsettling in its precision and emotional heft, The Story of a Marriage cracks wide open the familiar story of a failed love, as it turns cliched phrases over and over again until they crumble, revealing a bitter hollowness--or ringing new meanings.… (meer)
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Jon og kona "Timmy" har et spesielt sterkt og nært kjærlighetsforhold, i hvert fall tenker de slik om det selv. De gir hverandre frihet og er rause med hverandre. De kan snakke om alt, til og med andre mennesker de finner tiltrekkende. De liker å tro at deres eget forhold er så sterkt at det kunne tålt små forelskelser i andre, kanskje de til og med kunne være glade på hverandres vegne. Derfor blir Jon først ikke bekymret når Timmy forteller at hun har truffet en mann hun liker veldig godt. Han vil høre mer om det, det blir en kilde til erotisk tenning for dem begge. Kanskje det til og med gjør ekteskapet deres mer levende en periode. Men hvor lenge kan noe slikt utvikle seg uten at menneskelige følelser og behov kommer i veien?

Det gjør vondt å lese om hvordan Jon hele tiden prøver å vise storsinn og være glad på Timmys vegne, samtidig som han går på akkord med sine egne følelser og prøver å undertrykke sjalusien og redselen for å miste henne.

Og Timmy, som lener seg på friheten hun har, synker ubevisst dypere og dypere ned i forelskelsen, og ser ikke at følelsene for Jon blekner gradvis, før det er for sent. Og da er bruddet eneste utvei. Man kan ikke redde et forhold med noen man ikke lenger vil ha. ( )
  KirstenLucie | Dec 9, 2019 |
The most intimate book i have ever read about marriage. Heartbreaking. ( )
  ghefferon | Nov 3, 2018 |
The Story of a Marriage by Geir Gullliksen should be a story of emotion and reflection; unfortunately, for me, it is not. The book description purports a discussion of gender roles, relationships, and a larger philosophical statement. At the end, I am unsure what exactly this slim volume attempts. I am not even sure my interpretation of the mechanics of the story are correct. I am left with general sadness and much confusion. Perhaps, something is lost in translation. I just don't get it.

Read my complete review at http://www.memoriesfrombooks.com/2018/09/the-story-of-marriage.html

Reviewed for Penguin First to Read program. ( )
  njmom3 | Sep 6, 2018 |
La parella és cosa de dos. Malgrat ell volia estendre-la a un tercer, malgrat primer confiava que un tercer no podria trencar allò que ells havien construït, la gelosia va aparèixer, l'amor va canviar de bàndol, el matrimoni va acabar. ( )
  Montserratmv | Feb 28, 2018 |
I won an ARC in a GOODREADS giveaway! ( )
  tenamouse67 | Jul 21, 2018 |
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A dramatic portrait of the dissolution of a marriage, written with brutal and lyrical precision, and nominated for the Nordic Prize. Jon, who is losing his wife to another man, is trying to understand what happened to his Great Love, by working, painfully, to see the story from her perspective. It begins as he asks her: "Can you tell me about us?" As he looks to his past and within himself, he begins to question the conventions of masculinity and femininity, understanding himself uncommonly as a man who challenges the male role--he's deeply embedded in family life, and identifies as sensitive, vulnerable, and nurturing. And finally, in an effort to understand how his wife could fall in love with someone else, he attempts an ultimate act of empathy: to tell the story from the other man's point of view, raising crippling questions: Is it possible to have sex without violating oneself or the other? How much of what we think is love is only projection? Is it possible to truly know another person? With prose unsettling in its precision and emotional heft, The Story of a Marriage cracks wide open the familiar story of a failed love, as it turns cliched phrases over and over again until they crumble, revealing a bitter hollowness--or ringing new meanings.

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