The modern man has a lot to contend with in the mating wars. He has to walk that fine balance between feminism and chivalry; he has to understand the complex nuances of female behavior just so he can get the woman's contact details and first dates have now become more treacherous than an overpopulated mine field. The modern man knows that if he puts one foot wrong with his partner he is going to be first harangued and then probably ignored; while still being expected to make his beloved female feel special. At no time in a relationship - from that first look across a crowded subway; to the contentment of old age with a partner that has lasted - does the male part of the equation ever feel like he has got "it" right.Working out whether or not the woman you like the look of might be remotely interested in you is more complex than deciphering the Da Vinci code. And men have to be so careful these days - face it; in the age of political correctness if a bloke makes an off color joke, or inadvertently touches a woman's bottom he is likely to get either slapped or sued.So this is why this book was written. Yes, I maybe female but as such I can give you access to the way a woman thinks or acts far better than any other "co-called" male expert. I have been there; I have played the "game"; I have twirled my hair; and batted my eyelashes and sucked the olive so seductively off of a twizel stick; and while I don't know why those little actions seem to be so important to you men, I can let you in the secrets that will help you work out if a woman is interested in your or not.You might wonder why I am doing this at all - am I being a traitor to my gender - No, not at all. My problem is that I have so many single women friends who bemoan the same thing every week - "I can't find a decent guy" that I figured I had better give you men some help on getting to first base at least otherwise all of us are going to be lonely on a Saturday night.In the first section of this book I will talk about some basic differences between men and women; I am not talking about the physical ones - if you don't know them by now you had better go back to school, or a monastery; and in chapter two I give you some idea on how a woman looks at the dating scene and prospective men.The third chapter is a "must read" if you want a girl to even talk to you and in chapter four I point out what opening lines actually work, and why you shouldn't bother with the rest of them. Chapter five gives you 5 basic signs that will tell you a female is interested in you while chapter six points out those times when you are getting a crossed signal. Chapter seven points out quite clearly how you can tell a woman isn't "into you" even if she is appearing to be nice and friendly and chapter eight explains how you can save face when you are rejected and why this is important. Chapters nine and ten are useful tips and tools for those of you who have got past first base and who are seeing somebody while chapter eleven is a short checklist of all of the points that have been covered in this book - if you can't remember them then print that page and carry it with you when you go out. One more thing you should know - there are literally thousands of women out there looking for somebody like you. They spend every Friday and Saturday night plucking and preening and putting on their war paint - they squeeze themselves into uncomfortable outfits and shoes and they head out - looking for you. So don't be discouraged and think that no female is ever going to want you; because there are already heaps of them out there that do. All you have to do is read the flirting code correctly and you will be dating in no time.