I can't make myself care about this story. In fact, it's not really a story, but a collection of individual experiences -- almost a diary. The book is not really about the author. The hidden story here is really about her father. As her memoir, that is a let-down. She recounts events of her childhood primarily in relation to her father without ever explaining how those events swayed her as a person. Maybe I will come back, maybe I won't. :S...

Oh, one other thing. The obvious overuse of a thesaurus and usage of words that don't match the writing style is an annoyance! ( )

I couldn't finish this. Keep in mind that it is extremely rare for me not to finish a book. I am actually a little OCD about it. HOWEVER this was just incredibly boring so I stopped half way though or else I'll never finish a book this month! ( )

A devastatingly funny portrait of one aristocratic family in modern Britain by the last child to be born at Cawdor Castle, Scotland. Its dark humor was also the one uncomfortable aspect of the book for me, as Campbell savaged her parents in the telling of her story--not that they didn't deserve it--but as the family story isn't one of real abuse, it seemed unnecessarily cruel. It certainly should be read by anyone planning to visit Cawdor, as it is of inestimable value in interpreting those "family" photographs in the castle. ( )

There were times that this book was very good but for the most part i felt like the back of the book was better than the book itself. There was a lot of Scottish history, and although I am a history buff, it only served to separate me more from the author. ( )

My wife gave me this book knowing that it would be of particular interest to me for two reasons. The most obvious to most people would be my affinity for Shakespeare and the fact that this memoir follows the story and history of family members in Cawdor castle...the same location/family that figures in Shakespeare's Macbeth. That in itself makes this interesting enough. Even more fun to me is that (supposedly), I'm a distant descendant of an early Thane of Cawdor...or at least a member of the Cawdor family. My aunt/uncle supposedly traced us all the way. In my own records, I only have information back as far as the early 1700s in Northern Scotland 50-100 miles north of Cawdor.

Regardless of whether I'm a distant-distant-distant cousin of the author and the family, this was still a rather interesting memoir. It's well written and does a great job of combining contemporary family history with the history of generations of Thanes and others in the area.

The historical stories were very interesting. The narrative voice is humorous and makes the ancient tales seem vivid and very accessible.

The modern day story is sad and distressing at times. One of the reviewer quotes from the back cover identifies the author/writing as "corageously honest." I can agree. Life in her family was difficult. She tells about feeling a bit distant and separate from her fellow school mates and not being able to relate to them and their modern parties and ideas while she lived in a castle in an antiquated family system.

Her father Hugh became Thane in his mid 20s when her grandfather died. Through the course of the book, it's very apparent that Hugh wasn't ready to become Thane and didn't really know what to do with it. The estate suffered. But his family suffered even more. Hugh became a violent alcoholic and womanizer. He liked to put on a good show but at the same time he was almost a sociopath or, at the very least, not a big fan of dealing with people (aside from disposable women).

I don't want to sound like I'm judging Hugh too harshly and it was evident that the author didn't want to leave us with that perception either. At the end of the book, she outlines a variety of external influences that weighed heavily on the life/mind/psyche of her father...ranging from immense stress and pressure to mental and physical abuse. In the end, it's hard to justify his actions but the book does a great and thorough job of outlining the life of her father and her family.

I'm not a big reader of memoirs or biographies but I did enjoy this. The writing was fresh and clever. Even though this is a "titled" family living (literally) in a castle and on an estate, the stories and their lives were presented in such a way that I could empathize and relate to some of their struggles. I was left feeling close to the family and feeling sorrow at the way things turned out. Moreover, I was left curious for the future and to learn what's happened in the years since her brother became Thane and began working to restore the estate.

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3 out of 5 stars ( )