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Meld je aan bij LibraryThing om erachter te komen of je dit boek goed zult vinden. Op dit moment geen Discussie gesprekken over dit boek. The Girlfriend Mom is a laugh-filled memoir about growing through the imperfect experiences of joining with a family. Dani Alpert’s darkly funny memoir The Girlfriend Mom is about forging a relationship with her divorced boyfriend’s children. Alpert was a fierce, independent, childless New Yorker when she was forced to come to terms with her red-hot Portuguese lover’s obligations to his two children. The implications included weekend visits that invaded her passionate love nest, awkward hand offs with her partner’s ex-wife, and being responsible (yet not) for protecting and shaping the lives of young people. Soon Alpert figures out that she’s lost not only her heart, but control of her life. Her efforts to adjust to on-again, off-again family life take over: as soon as she grows accustomed to having kids around, it’s time to return to a child-free state. She struggles to set boundaries, ricocheting between feeling self-centered and powerless in a family drama that impacts her, too. She works to balance her needs with those of the people around her. Shifting loyalties and social pressures abound, even after the couple breaks up. She faces her own hang-ups, biases, and norms to embrace the young children in her life, regardless of her official standing. Narrated with honesty and wit, the book airs grievances and frustrations with nuance, flair, and comedic sensibilities. In one scene, Alpert gets lost in the rain with a full bladder; in another, she secures a scarce ticket to a graduation that she’s not even sure she’s invited to attend. Her doubts are voiced in a compelling way, and the comedy of awkward moments is emphasized, as when her boyfriend’s son steals her dildo. Biting humor also arises in Alpert’s anecdotes about time spent with the children, as with a reluctant visit to a flea market with her boyfriend’s son: “I zipped up my hazmat suit and lowered my gas mask, and we piled into the car.” Astute observations and juxtapositions enliven scenes further, as with a joke about her overprotective reaction to the boy’s obsession with a switchblade: “I imagined him mangling his fingers …. he’d never be able to play the violin,” though really, “he didn’t play the violin or have any interest in learning” anyway. Song lyrics open each chapter to set the tone; the book’s catchy chapter titles are complementary. Each person in Alpert’s story is made multidimensional, evincing a deep understanding of human foibles and compassion for others. Uncertainty and heartbreak are imparted in an unflinching manner, resulting in satisfying, bittersweet lessons. The Girlfriend Mom is a memoir about growing through imperfect experiences, with plenty of laughs along the way. Reviewed by Wendy Hinman for Foreword Clarion Reviews April 24, 2020 https://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/the-girlfriend-mom/
The Girlfriend Mom is a laugh-filled memoir about growing through the imperfect experiences of joining with a family. Dani Alpert’s darkly funny memoir The Girlfriend Mom is about forging a relationship with her divorced boyfriend’s children. Alpert was a fierce, independent, childless New Yorker when she was forced to come to terms with her red-hot Portuguese lover’s obligations to his two children. The implications included weekend visits that invaded her passionate love nest, awkward hand offs with her partner’s ex-wife, and being responsible (yet not) for protecting and shaping the lives of young people. Soon Alpert figures out that she’s lost not only her heart, but control of her life. Her efforts to adjust to on-again, off-again family life take over: as soon as she grows accustomed to having kids around, it’s time to return to a child-free state. She struggles to set boundaries, ricocheting between feeling self-centered and powerless in a family drama that impacts her, too. She works to balance her needs with those of the people around her. Shifting loyalties and social pressures abound, even after the couple breaks up. She faces her own hang-ups, biases, and norms to embrace the young children in her life, regardless of her official standing. Narrated with honesty and wit, the book airs grievances and frustrations with nuance, flair, and comedic sensibilities. In one scene, Alpert gets lost in the rain with a full bladder; in another, she secures a scarce ticket to a graduation that she’s not even sure she’s invited to attend. Her doubts are voiced in a compelling way, and the comedy of awkward moments is emphasized, as when her boyfriend’s son steals her dildo. Biting humor also arises in Alpert’s anecdotes about time spent with the children, as with a reluctant visit to a flea market with her boyfriend’s son: “I zipped up my hazmat suit and lowered my gas mask, and we piled into the car.” Astute observations and juxtapositions enliven scenes further, as with a joke about her overprotective reaction to the boy’s obsession with a switchblade: “I imagined him mangling his fingers …. he’d never be able to play the violin,” though really, “he didn’t play the violin or have any interest in learning” anyway. Song lyrics open each chapter to set the tone; the book’s catchy chapter titles are complementary. Each person in Alpert’s story is made multidimensional, evincing a deep understanding of human foibles and compassion for others. Uncertainty and heartbreak are imparted in an unflinching manner, resulting in satisfying, bittersweet lessons. The Girlfriend Mom is a memoir about growing through imperfect experiences, with plenty of laughs along the way. Reviewed by Wendy Hinman for Foreword Clarion Reviews April 24, 2020 https://www.forewordreviews.com/review...
After tap-dancing through life as a childfree woman, Dani fell in love with a divorced dad of two and stepped into the amorphous role of a parent's live-in significant other-or babysitter without compensation. Presented with a Whitman's Sampler of motherhood, she made rookie mistakes, like leaving the 11-year-old alone in the house while running to CVS for raisins and donating to the Alzheimer's Foundation as the kids' Christmas gifts. Seven years in, Dani got her bearings and sunk deeper into her semi-parenting, surprising herself and those around her. She kept Nicole's teenage secrets, whistled while she laundered Tyler's athletic supporter, and anointed herself "the Girlfriend Mom." And then she was dumped for a natural blonde. It wasn't a traditional divorce, and Dani had no visitation rights-but she and the kids wouldn't break up. And Dani went from keeping a guardedly warm distance to fighting for a place in their lives. Geen bibliotheekbeschrijvingen gevonden. |
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Dani and I have little in common, but her humanity comes shining through in this very witty memoir. Childless and husbandless, she falls in love with divorced man with a son and a daughter. This memoir tells the story of those relationships. And the love story that evolves with the children and surprisingly, their biological mother.
Heartwarming, funny, and revealing, Dani morphs from someone ambivalent about sharing her life with her boyfriend's kids to the "girlfriend mom".
While I love memoirs, I usually go for the serious, omg can you believe that happened type. This book was exactly what the pandemic ordered. Very sarcastic and Seinfeldian . . .
Make sure you don't miss the content before chapter 1 (if you have the Kindle edition it's easy to do!). Dani is a person who is unafraid to revel in her own shortcomings, and that kinda made me fall in love with her.
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