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The Porn Detective

door Stevie Turner

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Frances Andrews is sick of her husband Martin's addiction to pornography, and has lost her trust in him. Martin views porn as a harmless pastime, but when Frances threatens to leave, he is distraught and begs her to go with him for marriage guidance therapy. Counselor Rhona suggests they take a holiday in the first instance, and start talking to one another again. Frances just wants out of the marriage, but finally agrees to go on a cruise...as long as they have separate cabins. Told from both Frances and Martin's perspectives, Mind Games shines a light on the effect that an addiction to pornography can have on a previously happy marriage.… (meer)
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This book was previously entitled 'The Porn Detective'. It was re-written in 2017.
  StevieTurner | Apr 6, 2019 |
Title: Mind Games
Author: Stevie Turner
Publisher: KDP
Reviewed By: Arlena Dean
Rating: Four
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"Mind Games" by Stevie Turner

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After a 35 year marriage it looks like this wife has had enough of her husbands addiction to porn and want a divorce. Now, to fully understand what has gone on with this husband you will just have to pick up "Mind Games" to see how this author presents it to the reader. As I was reading this story I am not sure who I felt more sorrier for Frances or Martin. Definitely there was help that was needed by both but it didn't seem like anyone really wanted it. Martin claim to have quite this addiction but soon we will find out from the read really was that true? I could feel Frances need to not want to grow old along but to want to get back with Martin really had me shaking my head and saying REALLY! As for Martin well I can will say is He Really Needed Some Help! This story really left me thinking wow! I will stop now and just stay you will have to pick this one up. Will these two ever get back to that HEA that they seemed to have had at the beginning of their marriage? Well, all I will say is wow...Martin certainly think he has it all figured out. But anyone is has an addiction to pornography will definitely need to help. Now, since Martin tell Frances that he is though with porn and she seems to believe it! What will happen if Frances finds out really what Martin is hiding and still is up to. As the story stops here, hopefully Frances will still have her apartment still there for her to return to. She just may need it! ( )
  arlenadean | Oct 10, 2017 |
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I am giving my perspective (No Labels Unleashed) view on this work. For the extended, full review, please visit The Review Board.

The Porn Detective is a snapshot where perception and reality aren't in alignment. Frances believes that her and her mate, Martin, are on the same page when it comes to sexual experience, views on sexuality, and faithfulness. However, certain events unfold where it is clearly not the case, and there were indicators early on where this is revealed.

The very first glance is at the actual wedding, after Martin and Frances got married, Indicators of all were not as they seemed when the Best Man, Marcus, started saying certain things about Martin. He mentioned Martin's trips to the pub, various women, and times when Martin's drinking got a bit excessive. This side of Martin Frances had never seen, yet when she asked him about it, he behaved as if he had no clue what Marcus was speaking of.

Martin's sexual behavior becomes destructive. The feel of his member in his hands while looking at sexual imagery becomes more important than making a spiritual and emotional connection through lovemaking with his wife.

His addiction spilled over into other aspects of his life, causing damage to his work dynamic as well as his finances. It also sparked Martin's addiction to alcohol due to his depression in his failure to fully handle his other issues in an effective manner.

Frances did her best to stay by his side during the course of all this. However, with each discovery, I could feel a sense of denial, a state of “I can't believe this is happening.”

Frances' emotions were on a constant roller coaster. Day by day, she would have to wonder if Martin was really being honest about stopping looking at porn. When she was looking around, she'd have to brace herself for what she may or may not find. She had to struggle with knowing she wasn't the primary star in Martin's life. She had to decide to love herself enough to decide there was more to her life than this; that she was deserving of a marriage where she wasn't in constant competition with pornography and alcohol.

The dialogue bits in The Porn Detective, at times, ended a bit awkwardly. Also, there are a few people who would say that Frances' naivete seemed to stretch a bit too long before she accepted the truth about her husband. However, everyone's breaking point is different. I applaud the writer for addressing this issue with such candor. ( )
1 stem NoLabelsUnleashed | May 22, 2015 |
Great read!! “The Porn Detective” by Stevie Turner is a contemporary fiction book. The book was given to me in return for an honest review and I thoroughly enjoyed it.This is a very interesting subject about marriage and one of the two people in the marriage hooked to pornography and alcohol.It is very interesting to follow France’s journey and her decision to try and live a life without Martin who spends most of his time with porn and drinks. I am sure that some people find themselves in the same situation and this book would be perfect for them.This book opens your eyes to some horrid situations that might find yourself in, if you marry the wrong person. That author does an amazing job in providing details and situations to keep you glued to the pages. It is very well written and I would recommend the book to everyone who wants to make sure their marriage is strong and safe. ( )
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Frances Andrews is sick of her husband Martin's addiction to pornography, and has lost her trust in him. Martin views porn as a harmless pastime, but when Frances threatens to leave, he is distraught and begs her to go with him for marriage guidance therapy. Counselor Rhona suggests they take a holiday in the first instance, and start talking to one another again. Frances just wants out of the marriage, but finally agrees to go on a cruise...as long as they have separate cabins. Told from both Frances and Martin's perspectives, Mind Games shines a light on the effect that an addiction to pornography can have on a previously happy marriage.

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