This book starts by throwing readers off the deep end, not pausing to explain terminology until halfway through the book, when the author realizes she wants to reach a broad audience. The beginning assumes readers have been on r/raisedbynarcissists for years, when many likely have not. Campbell remembers this and goes back to Toxic Family 101, where she remains for the rest of the book. It's an annoying choice and poorly structured. I wonder why the editor didn't do anything. The book tries to be everything to everyone, while simultaneously only being for family scapegoats. There was no warning of such in the blurb or the introduction. There were some wonderful sentences and explanations, but they're buried under so much other stuff. I recommend the reddit page r/raisedbynarcissists rather than this book. ( )